When you vowed “for better or worse, you couldn’t have imagined marriage would be this messy. You weren’t delusional of course… you knew it wouldn’t be perfect. But there’s no way you could’ve expected so much difficulty and disappointment. Sound familiar? It does to us, too. If your relationship is feeling more like “relation$#*%” these days, but if you aren’t afraid to lay it all out there, you will discover that the solutions aren’t as complicated as you think they are.